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		<title>Comment on Why does executive coaching work? by Olga shulman lednichenko</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2008/08/17/why-does-executive-coaching-work/#comment-11</link>
		<dc:creator>Olga shulman lednichenko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:58:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there,

you are absolutely right, in my opinion , ie..

Last year you commented on my blog -and asked me what my definition of a coach is: so here are my cents :



[b] I thought of a catchy phrase to encapsulate my thoughts - &gt; here is what i came up with -&gt; &quot; behind a profile, lies a human soul&quot; -&gt; and then i thought what the hell does it mean -&gt; i was inspired by YOU - so.. read by [c] :)

[c] a coach helps the leader create a profile that matches her soul - a soul that is beautiful -&gt; in other words - a coach helps the leader know herself ..

[d] first of all, can i have a D ? please ? :) -&gt; Ok - so.. a coach helps: creating a leader, reading the inner workings of a leader, updating and absorbing the new and the old and helping delete those obsolete,inconsistent thoughts - and molds - that are perhaps worn out - and old ...:) 



[a] A coach is one who makes the leader believe in herself { substantiation -&gt; (i) work without hope draws nectar in a sieve&quot; (ii)look at all the organized religions - 6.5 billion humans - with differing beliefs - living lives based on what?- on a book - a book with a set of beliefs - how can deny? (iii) i think this was my most important point, which i just forgot :) i was too busy thinking of how to defend my ascertain and well i forgot what the point was.. :)

cheers

olga shulman lednichenko


ps: you are a wise man</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there,</p>
<p>you are absolutely right, in my opinion , ie..</p>
<p>Last year you commented on my blog -and asked me what my definition of a coach is: so here are my cents :</p>
<p>[b] I thought of a catchy phrase to encapsulate my thoughts &#8211; &gt; here is what i came up with -&gt; &#8221; behind a profile, lies a human soul&#8221; -&gt; and then i thought what the hell does it mean -&gt; i was inspired by YOU &#8211; so.. read by [c] <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>[c] a coach helps the leader create a profile that matches her soul &#8211; a soul that is beautiful -&gt; in other words &#8211; a coach helps the leader know herself ..</p>
<p>[d] first of all, can i have a D ? please ? <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  -&gt; Ok &#8211; so.. a coach helps: creating a leader, reading the inner workings of a leader, updating and absorbing the new and the old and helping delete those obsolete,inconsistent thoughts &#8211; and molds &#8211; that are perhaps worn out &#8211; and old &#8230;:) </p>
<p>[a] A coach is one who makes the leader believe in herself { substantiation -&gt; (i) work without hope draws nectar in a sieve&#8221; (ii)look at all the organized religions &#8211; 6.5 billion humans &#8211; with differing beliefs &#8211; living lives based on what?- on a book &#8211; a book with a set of beliefs &#8211; how can deny? (iii) i think this was my most important point, which i just forgot <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  i was too busy thinking of how to defend my ascertain and well i forgot what the point was.. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>cheers</p>
<p>olga shulman lednichenko</p>
<p>ps: you are a wise man</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dogged persistence – fossil hunting by crisjanzen</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2009/02/08/dogged-persistence-%e2%80%93-fossil-hunting/#comment-10</link>
		<dc:creator>crisjanzen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 16:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alchemy Exchange, 
Thank YOU for adding a whole new dimension and context to the idea of chip, chip chipping away to get at what matters. What a wonderful visual finding a fossil inside presents. 
Regards,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alchemy Exchange,<br />
Thank YOU for adding a whole new dimension and context to the idea of chip, chip chipping away to get at what matters. What a wonderful visual finding a fossil inside presents.<br />
Regards,</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why does executive coaching work? by Alchemy Exchange</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2008/08/17/why-does-executive-coaching-work/#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>Alchemy Exchange</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 00:11:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Olga, I agree about old being gold ;) but also your comments about the &quot;young effervescent crowd who speaks a different language&quot; - one of the challenges of an executive coach is to suspend his or her own prejudices and tune into the perspective of their coachee who may be different from the coach in a thousand ways. Executive coaches train themselves to become more aware of their own biases and learn how to stay totally objective about their coachee&#039;s background or situation.

Being able to work with people who are completely different to yourself is also an important skill for building teams. The best teams comprise people with contrasting skills and outlooks because collectively they have a much greater chance of success as a group.

Æ</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Olga, I agree about old being gold <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  but also your comments about the &#8220;young effervescent crowd who speaks a different language&#8221; &#8211; one of the challenges of an executive coach is to suspend his or her own prejudices and tune into the perspective of their coachee who may be different from the coach in a thousand ways. Executive coaches train themselves to become more aware of their own biases and learn how to stay totally objective about their coachee&#8217;s background or situation.</p>
<p>Being able to work with people who are completely different to yourself is also an important skill for building teams. The best teams comprise people with contrasting skills and outlooks because collectively they have a much greater chance of success as a group.</p>
<p>Æ</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why does executive coaching work? by olgalednichenko</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2008/08/17/why-does-executive-coaching-work/#comment-8</link>
		<dc:creator>olgalednichenko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 12:43:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aside from the many reasons that executive coaching works  ( as you have elegantly mentioned in your post) - I think 3 of the fundamental reasons why coaching is important are : 

[1] Executives are often lacking inputs from others. ( who can tell the big boss - he is wrong?)

[2] Executives can - and do - become - lost in their own world. In the frames they created, nurtured - thrived. But, the new generation comes along with their own frames. Their own world view. Its hard to let go of the past - when its cast  in a mold, that worked - but is old. You need an outsider sometimes to show the new world. 

[3] Executives are Old :) While old may be Gold, there is this young effervescent crowd who speaks a different language..wears a different sheen... If you dont get it - should I say you are older than I ? ( ie. older than 22 )?


You gave me an assignment to define - what a coach is.. Well, please give me some time and I would get back with you. I do like to learn and I am reading your blog. Glad you found me. Reading your blog is inspiring me to know more ! 
Please do visit my blog sometimes ( although at times I write  stuff that just reflects my mood - some videos etc&gt;.which you may not care to read)..

Ciao
Olga Lednichenko

PS: Thanks for the comment on my blog. I am thrilled. Made my day :) Here it is for anyone who cares to read: 

http://olgalednichenko.wordpress.com/2008/09/03/strategymarketing-operations-management-leadership-defined-in-simple-to-understand-terms-by-olga-lednichenko/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aside from the many reasons that executive coaching works  ( as you have elegantly mentioned in your post) &#8211; I think 3 of the fundamental reasons why coaching is important are : </p>
<p>[1] Executives are often lacking inputs from others. ( who can tell the big boss &#8211; he is wrong?)</p>
<p>[2] Executives can &#8211; and do &#8211; become &#8211; lost in their own world. In the frames they created, nurtured &#8211; thrived. But, the new generation comes along with their own frames. Their own world view. Its hard to let go of the past &#8211; when its cast  in a mold, that worked &#8211; but is old. You need an outsider sometimes to show the new world. </p>
<p>[3] Executives are Old <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  While old may be Gold, there is this young effervescent crowd who speaks a different language..wears a different sheen&#8230; If you dont get it &#8211; should I say you are older than I ? ( ie. older than 22 )?</p>
<p>You gave me an assignment to define &#8211; what a coach is.. Well, please give me some time and I would get back with you. I do like to learn and I am reading your blog. Glad you found me. Reading your blog is inspiring me to know more !<br />
Please do visit my blog sometimes ( although at times I write  stuff that just reflects my mood &#8211; some videos etc&gt;.which you may not care to read)..</p>
<p>Ciao<br />
Olga Lednichenko</p>
<p>PS: Thanks for the comment on my blog. I am thrilled. Made my day <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Here it is for anyone who cares to read: </p>
<p><a href="http://olgalednichenko.wordpress.com/2008/09/03/strategymarketing-operations-management-leadership-defined-in-simple-to-understand-terms-by-olga-lednichenko/" rel="nofollow">http://olgalednichenko.wordpress.com/2008/09/03/strategymarketing-operations-management-leadership-defined-in-simple-to-understand-terms-by-olga-lednichenko/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why does executive coaching work? by Alchemy Exchange</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2008/08/17/why-does-executive-coaching-work/#comment-7</link>
		<dc:creator>Alchemy Exchange</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 23:08:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks. This is an area I want to explore more in future posts. I know there are many potential clients who are put off by what they see as a lack of science behind coaching and the perception that it is all about fuzzy notions of finding &quot;answers within yourself&quot;. 

Given that so many executive coaches are Intuition-Feeling types (to use the Jung/MBTI categorisation), I feel that the logical and scientific underpinnings of the profession are often understated. 

In the banking industry - where I have spent much of my career - many key decision makers (ie potential clients) are Sensing-Thinking types hence I am trying to promote the executive coaching profession more in terms of logic, structure and process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks. This is an area I want to explore more in future posts. I know there are many potential clients who are put off by what they see as a lack of science behind coaching and the perception that it is all about fuzzy notions of finding &#8220;answers within yourself&#8221;. </p>
<p>Given that so many executive coaches are Intuition-Feeling types (to use the Jung/MBTI categorisation), I feel that the logical and scientific underpinnings of the profession are often understated. </p>
<p>In the banking industry &#8211; where I have spent much of my career &#8211; many key decision makers (ie potential clients) are Sensing-Thinking types hence I am trying to promote the executive coaching profession more in terms of logic, structure and process.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why does executive coaching work? by Randy Goruk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Randy Goruk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 15:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very good article to help those who may be interested in executive coaching but remain undecided if it is for them</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very good article to help those who may be interested in executive coaching but remain undecided if it is for them</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bonus Time by sheel123</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2008/08/06/bonus-time/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator>sheel123</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 14:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was in India, but rueing the fact that I was unable to contact my assistant in HK - because she had seemingly used the free day to absent herself from work or the blackberry!

She had apparentl ytaken the time bonus and used it for her own benefit - or so it seems. The typhoon was also two days before her last day in the office and she was preparing to mentally check out. 

I am therefore not sure whether she viewed the typhoon as a time bonus or as an excuse to not be engaged given her employment at the firm was about to end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was in India, but rueing the fact that I was unable to contact my assistant in HK &#8211; because she had seemingly used the free day to absent herself from work or the blackberry!</p>
<p>She had apparentl ytaken the time bonus and used it for her own benefit &#8211; or so it seems. The typhoon was also two days before her last day in the office and she was preparing to mentally check out. </p>
<p>I am therefore not sure whether she viewed the typhoon as a time bonus or as an excuse to not be engaged given her employment at the firm was about to end.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are you paying attention? Are you really listening? by Alchemy Exchange</title>
		<link>http://alchemyexchange.wordpress.com/2008/08/09/are-you-paying-attention-are-you-really-listening/#comment-4</link>
		<dc:creator>Alchemy Exchange</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 12:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent suggestion. Also makes you realise how much you rely on commentators as the conduit and how important it is that they stay focused on every aspect of the game and not ignore some aspect which is important to you as the listener.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent suggestion. Also makes you realise how much you rely on commentators as the conduit and how important it is that they stay focused on every aspect of the game and not ignore some aspect which is important to you as the listener.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are you paying attention? Are you really listening? by Randy Goruk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Randy Goruk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2008 14:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A good way to developing your &quot;stay focused listening skills&quot; is to practice by listening to a sporting event on the radio. 
Not allowing your mind to wander is extremely challenging listening to baseball - you need to be focused on who is up - what the ball / strike count is - how many pitched have been thrown - who is on base - how many out - what inning your in - what the score is - who is on deck ... and it all happens fairly slowly and quickly at the same time, with  some information (if not all) changing after every pitch.

If you have difficulty staying focused on the speaker try practicing the art of visualization - listen to a baseball game on the radio</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A good way to developing your &#8220;stay focused listening skills&#8221; is to practice by listening to a sporting event on the radio.<br />
Not allowing your mind to wander is extremely challenging listening to baseball &#8211; you need to be focused on who is up &#8211; what the ball / strike count is &#8211; how many pitched have been thrown &#8211; who is on base &#8211; how many out &#8211; what inning your in &#8211; what the score is &#8211; who is on deck &#8230; and it all happens fairly slowly and quickly at the same time, with  some information (if not all) changing after every pitch.</p>
<p>If you have difficulty staying focused on the speaker try practicing the art of visualization &#8211; listen to a baseball game on the radio</p>
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		<title>Comment on Midlife by sheel123</title>
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		<dc:creator>sheel123</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 13:28:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice debut blog Alchemy Exchange - and thought provoking. I can see this could be the beginning of a voyage of discovery. Well done on your new quest!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice debut blog Alchemy Exchange &#8211; and thought provoking. I can see this could be the beginning of a voyage of discovery. Well done on your new quest!</p>
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